I’ve relapsed again on alcohol 2nd day sober, but I feel depressed and hopeless that I can do sobriety, I’ve tried it so many times
Stopping and quitting aren’t the same. Stop comes with intent to go again. Try focusing the effort to drink into not wanting to drink. Think about how miserable it makes you feel and fuel the want to quit. Depending on your frequency and severity it’ll take time before you see the physical effects. The mental side is daily, just don’t drink for today. Tell yourself that in the morning and all day as needed. When you go to bed sober you’re giving tomorrow a chance to be better.
Meetings. Zoom or in person. Get plugged into a program and surround yourself with others in the same struggle. Can’t do this alone. Good start right now reaching out. Keep sharing.
Ask for help. And keep asking for help. We are here to support you.
Thank you.. and the same for you.
I’ll never give up on someone who really wants to quit drinking
Talking to others. Meetings or platforms like this. Feel free to message!
"Our greatest glory consists not in never
failing, but in rising every time we fall." Quote from a show I watched-I agree. You can rise-that’s all that matters.
I know the feeling well and was just there a few days ago. I’m feeling better. Being in community has been helpful, and I am speaking with a new therapist. Your brain chemistry will rebalance as you get further from your relapse. I’ve been telling myself, on the advice of someone here, - Just for today. It makes things more doable.
I’m 2 days as well and feel horrible, hopeless and a disappointment but I’m glad I found this app so I can reach out when I attempt to drink again
Go to rehab to get you over the 90 day hump. Best thing I ever did. It sucks but doesn't suck. I couldn't stay sober for a week.
Thank you for all the messages and advice. I have tapped into some resources and contacts from the past.. in the rooms zoom meetings were helpful last night. I work today until 9 tonight so I will be using those resources again later. That’s my plan rn for today.
Keep going Lynn!
Try again don't give up,90 in 90!!