I want to get sober because drinking and recovering from drinking has become like a full time job. I drank a lot last week and missed a few deadlines and work meetings. I haven't been fired yet but I know if I keep this behavior up it's not going to end well. I think I need to go to rehab but I don't want everyone I work with to know. Has anyone had experience letting your employer know you need time off for rehab?
I’ve never had this experience but i think it’s best to be honest with your boss. Unless you can take a sabbatical or something. But tell your boss how private it has to be for you to actually recover. They may understand. Good luck!!
Does your company allow FMLA leave? My company did not have that in place when I went for treatment. I requested the time off though. My boss didn't ask particulars, but he knew without me having to tell him. I was very afraid bringing it up, and it could have gone either way. He said that he was human and wanted to see me get better. This is clearly a scary thing to approach and everyone's circumstance and work relations are different. I wish you the best and hope for a successful outcome!
My boss didn't disseminate my whereabouts. He told me if asked, to tell my colleagues I was absent for "personal matters", and to leave it to my discretion to reveal any other details - which I have not shared with colleagues
So helpful, thank you so much!