I work with a hostile coworker. Constantly micromanaging my every move, throws temper tantrums when I do anything independent. I normally ignore it, theres no higher up to speak with. I’ll be fired if i complain and i cant afford to figure something else out. The hurt stays with me despite prayer, working out meditation etc like people aren’t supposed to be treated like this but its the way our world is set up sometimes. Very triggering and what initially caused a relapse I recovered from. I need more manageable “tools” to emotionally handle being degraded no matter how “perfect” i try to do everything. If everything is right some fictional issue will be made up about me anyway.. what do you do to handle not being appreciated or seen or cared about when you work really hard and care ?
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You cannot do anything about how people act. What you can do he's not react. You need to pause and think about how you should respond. Remember, just because they're acting that way doesn't mean or give you the reason to act that way too
You definitely need to find a different job this person will definitely be ur downfall to use again hey it’s just a stupid job if u can’t complain to someone higher up the ladder then u need to get off that ladder before u slip and fall off that latter believe me ur life is more important then that dead end job u have where nobody cares for ur sobriety
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It’s not alignment if you are relapsing over it. What is best for you in the long run? Find a job while still working and tell them what caused you to leave without anger.
Heyy accept ny Friend request. .