I'm going to see my family for the second time since I've been sober, and I'm also going to a wedding. This will be the first big social even I've been to since I got sober!! Any tips??
I recommend reading the book Living Sober. It has a chapter on how to safely attend such events. Start with an exit plan. Have your own transportation. Discuss with your sponsor. Let the hosts know that you can’t drink. Always have a glass in your hand even if it’s just a sprite or whatever. Arrive early and leave before the drinks become the focus. I’m sure I’m forgetting a lot.
Go to a meeting or a few meetings be for hand.just relax.pay attention to your soda have fun.you will be ok. Aa. Dave
I recommend all this.
If you have a sober friend who would not be influenced by alcohol bring him/her with you.