I'm greiving the loss of my partner and I messed up after being sober for 4 years, the deep emoncail pain and I don't know what to do anymore can anyone help me any tips or tricks? I. Struggling alot and I need help? I feel like a failure over it

Someone help me

Just start over...your not a failure...everyone struggles. .pray for help...GOD hears you! You got this!

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Hayley, you’re not a failure! Just a student of life. I’m almost 17 years sober, but was a chronic relapser for a couple decades. Believe me, everyone including me thought I was a failure. But I know now that those were lessons that became tools for me to help others.
We get back up, go to AA/NA etc., meetings, do the 12 steps thoroughly and learn from our mistakes. Then help others achieve the same freedom.
I’m here if you want to talk or have any questions.