Im struggling with the fact my brother has been using me as a ‘detox.’ He comes by and says he wants to be sober. I jump to help because i want that so bad. And then after a few days of getting good sleep and some food…he leaves…to the streets again. I know i cant keep doing this. Im hindering him, jeopardizing my home, and hurting my own heart and mind. I love him. I know its time to love him from a distance. It just kills me…
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Boundaries can be so tough when you love someone so much and want the best for them. If it’s troubling you, triggering you, robbing your oeace. You might have to lay them boundaries down and start to give him ultimatums. He just might take it. Stay in touch k