I'm struggling with trusting people and not letting my emotions

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I'm struggling with trusting people and not letting my emotions take me back to a place I fought so hard to get out of...I was clean on and off for 3 years l didn't use untill almost 2 years sober and I have been clean now almost 2 months and I'm so happy for that but it's hard for me to stay sober because everybody in my life seems to hurt me one way or a other or use me and that is y I been struggling so bad because I try so hard to be there for people and I keep getting used and taking advantage of and tsking for granted and that hurts so bad because I'm really trying and im getting tired of everything...what should I do and my relapses have a lot to do with this and getting my heart broke what should I do? I need some advice and I'm new here just trying to find my way...❤‍🩹 And I know I can't blame people for the part I played and I own up to my wrongs but I'm struggling with what I should do now....my heart is so broken :broken_heart:

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#3

Are you working the 12 steps with a sponsor?

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#4

Thanks for sharing this Jenny, I'm sorry for the way you've been treated, you are worth way more. I think being sober is the better life, and I know you can find strength in sobriety.

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#5

No I need to find another sponsor because I moved

#7

Jenny, I sponsor over the phone. 16+ years sober and I’ve sponsored both men and women.
You can private message me if you’re interested in talking about it

#8

Helping people makes u a wonderful person there aren't many hold on to that just start setting boundaries. If there causing u stress remove them real friends and loved ones do not do this .but still help for it is written if they force u walk one mile walk two