Support...im lacking support bcz i cant seem to ask
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You just did
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Well don’t ask and you still shall receive. I know what it’s like to be stuck in your head not wanting to burden people that might have more problems than me or might never had enough problems to deal with whatI got between my ears. It’s a full blown circus with untrained monkeys throwing well I’ll just leave that there. But you get my point. You’re at the right place tellin the truth. Tellin on yourself and your disease that says nobody wants to hear what you gotta say. Actually I would love to hear how you got to this point. Cause maybe we got to this point the same way or maybe you went around the world to get here or maybe you just went down the street maybe we was on the same street at the same time doing the same stuff and still didn’t see each other. Who knows?
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Ask your worth it!!
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Maybe it’s fear, fear of rejection, fear of trusting again, or maybe you were just taught to always be the strong one. Not knowing how to ask makes sense when you’ve had to survive without support for so long. But writing this comment, that’s the first step. The next step is to write another one. Let people help you. Take the pieces you need, leave the rest. You’re already climbing out of it, little by little. By starting small you’re teaching yourself to show up for yourself.
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I can relate it can take some time in the beginning but don’t give up on yourself because it starts to feel so much better when people actually care enough to want to help you’ll find what you need it works 
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I understand everything you wrote in your post it took some time to heal lo today is different being determined to want to make it has brought me closer to my goals everyday a little bit more 
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We all need it. Contact me anytime
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I also like to struggle alone
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I'm trying to overcome being the only one who makes this harder than it needs to be
I feel like I want to climb out. Especially before it gets out of hand. I was an addict for many years and just recently released. I've noticed that it's happening more and more frequently..
Therefore I'm going to do more now than I've ever done bcz now I have a little boy who is madly in love with me (his momma).
He deserves a mom who fought tooth and nail to make sure he had the mother shes supposed to be for him.
Thank you everyone
Sounds like your asking for help now lol you see you can ask and it ok to ask that is what helps us is we are stronger together and we don't have to do this alone.
If you don't trust a person with your situation/feelings/hopelessness or concerns...
A dog can really brighten your day and help you relax during tough times (which are temporary. They won't last forever)... a dog can be a great way to just focus on living in the present moment...
If you don't have a dog at home...possibly a friend or a family member has one that you can go visit...(or a cat)...
If you aren't a fan of animals, writing down on paper or in a journal...pretending to express your emotions/situation on the paper the same way you wish you could explain to a supportive person can help release some tension as well.
Hope each day that comes and goes treats you better and better as the Seasons change.