Interested in a guy who has most of his stuff together and I feel like a sore thumb. I haven't been sober very long and I'm worried that I'm moving from one thing to another. I really do like him but am I in the position to be good for him or will a relationship be any good for me at this point? Gosh idk 
first time I've felt a genuine comfortable connection in a long time. My ex passed away that I was with for five years- five years ago and I've made mistake after mistake trying to cope with not only his death but multiple losses. Never tried to cope with companionship always with alcohol or substances as relationships are too scary. The rug can always be pulled out. Now I'm just rambling but I don't know whether I should move forward with someone who could be a great match for me while I'm still early in sobriety.
How far into sobriety are you? And how long ago did you meet this person and when did you start becoming interested in him?
Check out the last paragraph on page 119 of the 12 & 12…
Excellent relationship advice for dating in and out of the program.
http://www.ccaa.org.au/The%2012-Steps%20and%2012%20traditions.pdf