It’s only been a week of complete sobriety and a few months of slowing down prior, but I’ve really noticed how many “friendships” weren’t exactly that. More like enablers and codependent type relationships. I’m glad to be moving forward, but I think it may be lonely for a bit till I meet more like minded individuals that offer truly supportive friendship. I really thought everyone would be happy for me and excited for me. It’s just not that way 
Too high of expectations? Am I worrying about what other people think too much? Rumination is one of the reasons I liked drinking. It shut my brain off to these thoughts in my head.
Yes to your qestion. If people are not supporting your decision, they are not your people.
That can present hard decisions, but regardless you are number 1, and you cant help youself or others by allowing yourself to listen to or be influenced by those who dont support your decision. I am guessing by you note, you are a person who would always help a friend, neighbor, or someone in need. Listen to you. You cant help youself or others if you let others bring you down. Best wishes on your recovery.
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Yes you’re correct! Almost to a fault I have been a people pleaser for my entire life. Dropping everything to help everyone else but myself. I can no longer do that.