I turned 22 today, definitely a weird age already. Growing up I was lucky to have a life where birthdays were always a big deal. Now that age milestones are on hiatus until the senior discount rolls around, it feels like just any other day. I did have the treat of my Dad and Sister coming to visit me here in California. Which was wonderful. But the addict mentality left me wanting more. Where were the calls from my friends? Where was the call from my grandparents? I eventually came to the realization that maybe people aren’t interested in celebrating someone who’s caused so much chaos in their lives. It was a tough moment of realization. I used my tools and made it through. Now I’m setting the goal, by my next birthday I want to be continuing to take the next best step. I’m confident that the relationships I’ve damaged will either heal or move forward. The ones that don’t have served their time. I am grateful to be sober, grateful to be alive, and grateful for my family.
~Ben
Happy birthday Ben
Happy birthday, Benjamin! 
I'm glad you have the support of your dad and sister. I'm sure others will come around--they just need time.
Keep the position mindset [about your future]. You have your whole life ahead of you. I'm so proud of you for choosing sobriety at an early age.
Eventually, people stop cheering for you when you make potty in the toilet. Birthdays are no different. Hard lesson for your generation, but you'll heal. 
Happy birthday, Ben.
Here's a Bday song for you.
I think your assessment is correct. Give it time. Remember, you’re creating a new track record. Find all the things to be grateful for today.
Happy Birthday
Happy Birthday Ben! I agree with what everyone else has said, just need to give it time. Focusing on yourself and your journey is most important right now.
Happy Birthday!!! People may not be as obvious in celebrating you but it is still momentous, not everyone makes it to 22. (Or any given age) feel proud of yourself ❤️🩹
Happy birthday, Ben you are doing great
Jodi