Ive been ghost on here for awhile , but man its been a bad year, still going through court for my daughter i see her once a week … on child support …. Recently relapsed and hating myself , dont have many people besides family to count on and talk to but family always tells me “just dont drink” … just in a bad head space
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Oof, I'm sorry to hear that Jay. I always hate getting the "just don't drink", as if we don't feel powerless enough already.
Keep connecting, work on it day (or hour) at a time! please dont hate yourself for the relapse, it's already done. Hopefully it's in the past. And that is where it should stay; in the past. Focus that energy on moving forward, Jay.
Please feel free to message me if you need a chat.
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I'm so sorry Jay. I can 100% relate to the HIGHLY frustrating "Just don't drink" or "It's an easy choice" comments from family. It's hard for people to understand that it's a disease and willpower alone does not cure it. Community is so huge in the recovery process, so welcome 
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