Ive been sober a while without going to meetings but im finding it really hard to be social sober. Any suggestions on meetings or groups or even things to do in the indianapolis area to meet like people. I get so bored sometimes!
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My social life is almost nonexistent by choice. I love my boring life. I do more now then I ever have
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Hello Brittany. I been sober 54 months and I probably went to AA meetings 10-15 times. It wasn’t for me. I didn’t need help. Willpower is all I needed and so far I’m doing better than ever. You hang in there and stay strong.
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I went to a lot of meetings those first few years. That was my most important social life. I had sober friends that I had things in common with, and there were plenty of sober activities outside of the meetings and other things to do. There were a lot of sober events, camping, picnics and stuff that were good for kids too. I got sober in Cleveland, but I'd imagine there's a lot going on in your area. Check it out!
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Thanks Everyone for all your advice.
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Gym, church, volunteer organizations you can help with, pottery or paint classes are meet places to meet folks and drinking isn't the main event.
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Yes it’s not isolating it’s enjoying solitude
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