Ive been sober for 14 months and so many bad things keep happening. I havent really done much for my recovery to be honest. Life just got away from me. In the beginning i worked with a sponsor. Prayed. Meditate. Went to meetings. Worked my 12 steps. Now i feel i dont know where to start again because i am still sober its just i feel like my life is falling apart.
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Start in the morning with a simple meditation on awaking and prayer and remember we have to live in the moments no more than 24 hours ahead focus on the moment not future not past but take action in morning with simply reading and meditation before your day starts then go from there
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Do what you know. Get another sponsor, do the steps, go to meetings. And also sponsor a newcomer. Be of service to sober community and give back what was given freely to you.
That’s how it works.
Everything will come together, you’ll see.
We must do our part.
I sponsor at 15 years sober.
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Speaking from personal experience, I have learned to rely on my meetings and friends I have met there. I became very good friends with my sponsor and I trust her wholeheartedly and can talk to her about anything. When life gets hard, we need to rely and depend on our sober family to keep us sane and give some wise counsel advice.
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Let go let GOD
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recovery is an everyday process. We can't afford to grow complacent. if you want something bad enough you have to work at it. Start doing what you did in the beginning. meetings, find another sponsor or other friends in recovery. Whatever you do...stay grateful 
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Go to meetings, stay humble, keep busy as any old habbits durong active use will creep up and eventually we could fall back into addiction. It is an everyday battle for us to stay sober. Will not come easy. We have to get to where we want to be and work hard balancing it. In time. Remember what life will be like if you go back to addiction. How great it is to wake up everyday feeling grateful with what you have now. Life is supposed to be hard. We just need to find what we are good it (hobbies wise) and build coping mechanismns to make it through tough times.
Stay strong!
You already explained the problem and solution in your post.
Get back to meetings, get a sponsor, and work the steps.
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