Just got into a fight with my S/O and it just made everything worse I feel like he’s seeing someone else and still has feelings for another woman that he saw last year I’ve already wanted to use all day and need someone to give me tips or things to keep myself busy
Ignore him do you live your life let him live his. His not worth it you using. That gives him even more of a reason to fool around. Let’s say that he is seeing some one else? Then what your going to throw everything away fir him. Not worth it
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Thank you for helping me I feel like I met you for a bigger reason thank you for the advice it ment a lot to me
No problem you. You can massage me any time. I’ve my I’ve never used that in life but I know plenty of good friends that do. And it hurts to see what they go through. You give me hope that it is possible to beat that drug and stay clean.
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Recovery is a selfish program. Put YOU first and foremost.
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Stay strong
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I’m sorry for your struggles. I think you know what you need to do. You have to come first. Your life will get better if you stay sober. If your partner is truly concerned about you, he will see your efforts . Either way, you need to do this for you
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That’s bs but you can’t make that an excuse for using. You deserve way better. Stay strong!
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That’s a huge deal. Have you considered a counselor for yourself or both of you? Maybe one step is to look into one. Just get an idea of what’s available to you. Keep asking yourself if using will heal you or your relationship. Just my 2¢
I’ve tried to bring up counclining we talked about it but never committed I feel like itsjust from the stress from having a newbornchild
That is a lot going on. One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned in my alcohol abstinence is: I can only control what I do and how I respond. Have you thought about initiating the counseling for yourself? My part in blowing up my marriage was in part due to my substance abuse. It sounds like you have an opportunity. At least to look into what you can do. Be kind to yourself too. Being a parent is intense.
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Thank you for the advice I’ve been dealing with a lot lately and being a new mom isn’t helping either
Go to a meeting honey. Talk to some friends. You don’t have to punish yourself by drinking because you are reacting to someone you can’t control
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I used to use herion but yes you’re right I shouldn’t have to use just to be okay and feel like myself
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