Just got my 60 day chip! :) Still struggling to

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#21

Congrats Angelina, I’d say go to a couple meetings and see if their is fellowship afterwards.

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#22

Ummmm, that is fantastic! One flippin day at a time..

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#23

You're not alone. I feel the same way. It's hard to get connected but just keep showing up for yourself and keeping focused on recovery

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#24

If you ever need a friend or want to talk, feel free to message me

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#25

Congrats!

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#26

Just keep showing up! Try some service work. Be patient with yourself

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#27

Are you being age specific?
Don't worry about how young or old someone is. Just make sure that they have a lot of sobriety under their belt and that they are working a good program. The ones who are working the best program have a tendency to show up at the big book and the 12 and 12 discussion meetings.

The instructions for recovery are outlined in those 2 books.

Get some phone numbers and actually use them. People don't know how to pick up the phone and call people these days. Everybody's in to doing all this bull s*** texting and there's no actual human interaction.

I've been sober almost 9 years and I still call someone in the program everyday. And don't put too much effort into finding new friends in your life. The new friends will come in time. Just worry about recovery for now.
First Things First

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#28

Keep it up

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#29

You see my face I'm real. This does work when you can't get ahold of anyone.

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#30

42yrs of sobriety I know it works

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#31

Well, if you call me on the phone, I’ll be more than willing to talk to I do you

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#32

Well, you are not alone

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#33

Thank you for this, I really appreciate it

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#34

First 90 days so I’m told is the hardest I’m on 72 days an loving life for the past 4 times I relapsed the time is different than the last times I feel so differently I’m always in a position to talk and listen. Vid chat and go through the big book. If u need a new clean friend

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#35

Keep going, you are doing great

#36

Stay with the women

#37

Im looking to make sober friends too. Its been tough for me, I should probably go to a meeting or something. I really need a support network for times when I’m depressed or have cravings to drink and smoke weed.

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#38

keep going to meetings!! You’ll find your people :slight_smile:

#39

Meeting makers make it!

#40

I come to SJ now and again, let's get coffee and talk. Maybe even create a sober action plan for you.