Just having a hard time with a bad relationship and

Struggling Help
#25

Here here

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#26

I’m not going to change lol I just am trying to get through the holidays and this is not what I need

#27

Sounds like it’s his issue. Stay strong!

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#28

Good! Only changes I need are in my attitudes toward myself and others. You’ll get thru the holidays like we all will, by sticking close to our support groups and AA.

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#29

Dump him. He does not respect or accept you

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#30

It sounds like the opening ‘calling card’ of a controlling a-whole. Run.

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#31

It sounds like your boyfriend is the one with issues.

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#32

I’m so sorry you’re going through this… I’m addition to dumping this boyfriend who does not deserve you, I suggest doing something for yourself that reminds you of how beautiful you are! I struggle often with body image issues, and when I am having trouble coping, I do something kind for myself like take a bubble bath, or curl up with some hot tea and watch a movie. I also have gotten into the practice of saying something nice to myself when I walk past a mirror, completely unrelated to “looks”… such as “Jill you are so kind! Or “You did a great job handling your anxiety today”… etc.

I hope this advice can bring you a little bit of peace :heart:

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#33

Thank you

#34

Rheanne
Stay strong and keep loving you forever
Your B.F has the issue not you
Your beautiful

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#35

I can tell you how to ditch the bad weight quick...kick him to the curb.

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#36

Thank you

#37

I'm sure you have your wishes for him too. I wish I was smaller....I also wish my ex wasn't an alcoholic but she is my ex now. There are lots of people who like you exactly how you are.

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#38

SLAA is a great program & Al-Anon

#39

Thank you and I feel you there

#40

If he can’t see the good on the inside and all he is worried about is the outside then maybe he isn’t the one just saying

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