Just struggling to get past the obsession…..
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It’s most definitely a challenge for me I just keep telling myself one day I will be happy again as long as I struggle now one day I will look back and be grateful bc lord knows I’ve been miserable long enough so if I just struggle now it will go away and I am by no means a professional at this But the old-timers I guess she would say keep telling me this and they seem pretty happy so apparently it does get better at some point
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One minute, hour, day at a time. Meetings?
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Yes, I go. But, it’s still hard.
I gets easier as you go. Do you have a support group of ladies? I hope so. Just remember your never alone. This app is always there
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Where are you at sobriety wise? Like how long have you been at this? The straight up obsession took a while for it to pretty much go. I’m at two years and it’s not completely gone. I don’t know if will ever be completely gone. It is not there on a daily basis though. For me there was definite drop offs. Biggest was at 3 months, which I think is pretty common. Then as I recall around 6-8 months, which coincided with finishing my first go through the steps. IDK it just continues to get easier as long as I stay immersed in the program. If I even stray for a few days, my old mind sets and obsessions start to come back.
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Stay busy.any kind of meetings.or be with sober friends.
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Steps....