Staying focused right now is alittle challenging. In the last 2 days I have had my world shaken and personal life invaded at the hands of someone I didn’t even know that i was only trying to be a decent human being too. Peeps..especially females careful who you associate and dm with, it can come back and bite you in the rear. 
scary!
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Awe Sassy... That sucks. People can be analholes. Why can't people mutually respect one another.
Sorry you had a scary experience. Thank you for reminding everyone to be careful with their personal info. Beware of red flags 
If you see something like this:
Hey dm me I have a question
That’s a big red flag. Be careful.
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Thank you guys..
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People are crazy sometimes
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That sounds really unsettling. 
People can be wild, and it’s tough when you’re just trying to be a good person and get hit with stuff like this. You don’t deserve that kind of energy. Keep your peace first, and don’t let the wrong ones shake your focus. Here for you
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You owe alot of women an apology, so you can publicly apologize by admitting what you have done wrong to all of us. That would be the admirable thing to do!
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Sorry to hear this..Be safe out there, lots of people with bad intentions…hang in there!
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I hope you are ok. It sucks to feel like that at any time, but especially when we are at our most vulnerable, like right now when we are trying to rebuild and mend. Stay strong.
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@curtis187214 Very true. There are lots of wolves in sheep's clothing on this platform. The sad part is that they make the lions, you and I, look bad.
Dude this Jay S is a total creep!!
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Who?
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Well, the good news is they were a stranger, so that should hopefully be a done deal. Staying positive can definitely be a challenge. I find doing great my gratitudes helps tremendously most days at least.
I wish it was that simple, and it should have been. But when you accept friends on a platform and they feel an infatuation and pry into your personal space it’s no longer a stranger
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Hhhh where did this individual go? Did the mole go underground again?
@kristen322500 this individual now goes by the name Ryan. He responded to your post about your court issues. Please don't accept his request.
Thanks for sharing Sassy, and I'm sorry this happened. Perhaps we should put together or look for a 'boundaries in recovery' guide. I hope the situation has gotten better over the past few days.
Seriously though, there are good books on boundaries with our kids, boundaries in dating, perhaps addressing how we can end up on the inside, and how we can protect ourselves each other by establishing boundaries in Recovery apps would be worth a book or a guide here.
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Ouch, yeah that makes things very complicated. I'm sorry for what you are going through.
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