Got the kids for the weekend, even know I’m sober …. I am just boring. They dont want to do anything and to be honest, I am ok with that but I know it won’t help me connect with them any quicker, it’s all so new I don’t want to rush things either and build trust…
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Play a game with them. That's a good start.
Take your time. Just hang out and take it easy. If you’re newly sober it will take time for them to adjust. Trips to the park and hikes are a good idea.
I walked in your shoes. A sad feeling. Try to connect with something they enjoy. It’s so hard. I understand. My daughters have deleted me for the last 5 years
Take it easy, how old are they? We’ve got ideas, I’m sure!