I used to be told that i am very selfish. I used to get angry at that comment. These days i am grateful that when i am being considered selfish its because i am using the tool of self care. Meaning I do something for me, whether it is going to a meeting or immersing meself on something like cooking or baking or even just taking a hot bubble bath. I welcome being called selfish then i know that I am on the right track!
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These are some very serious and unselfish reasons to be grateful! Keep on keeping on the right track!
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I am.selfish because I have boundaries. It took me a long time to understand it takes selfishness through boundaries to protect your peace and serenity
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Absolutely and when people push my boundaries I get pretty upset that's when I'm usually told I'm selfish and it's me, me ,me all the time. I have been w/o boundaries for so long and a door mat, so I have to train them. It's either I'm drunk or I have boundaries, choose one!
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Love this for you! Boundaries