Learning to navigate how to accept help. 
Probably the hardest step, to give up full control.
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It's difficult but not impossible as time goes by it won't be as hard
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The illusion of control is my ego. My ego is not my amigo.
I cannot control anyone or anything. The goal for me is to ACCEPT everyone as they are and to choose how I feel.
I feel you this is the hardest thing I am doing myself, you are not alone
Hi Lilli: That is the hardest part. I denied my addiction for decades because I was educated and successful and thought, "Not me! I am...." After 5 years sober in AA, I have lots of successful educated doctor, lawyer, and other professional friends that also let there egos stop them from asking for help. Sobriety = Surrender:pray:t4:
Read the book Flow. Its all about choices you make