Yesterday I had to let go of someone I truly love and let them know that I was doing it for myself because I wouldn't be able to work on myself with them in my life. Had to let them know that it was messing with my mind and I can't have it. It's really a hard thing to do and I second guess my self. In my heart and mind I know it was The best thing to do. It just sucks that's all
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It sounds like you had to make a tough decision for your well-being, Ed. Letting go of someone you love for your own growth is a brave step, even though it's incredibly hard. Trust your heart and mind; you made the choice for a reason. It's okay to feel conflicted about it, but remember to prioritize your own mental health and happiness. You're not alone in feeling this way. If you need to talk more about it, I'm here for you.
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Wow, that takes a lot of courage and willpower and love to do that. I wish I had that type of thing in me that I could do that I end up getting dumped and let down before I take action like that but I’m cleaning sober today that’s a really counts and you’re doing it. I’m proud of you. It means a lot to me and it’s gonna mean a lot to me in the future. Thank you.
The deed is done and mourning is normal even for this kind of loss.
This person, if they love you, may love you more as you go down this path. More importantly, you will begin to love yourself. We are no good to anyone until we embrace that. You did the right thing.
Ed, that’s inspiring. I’ve been trying to do the same. It’s so hard. You have a lot of courage. It’s a good life in sobriety.