Letting go of a previous breakup 
she has moved on and blocked me from contacting her but I'm struggling to let go!
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She must have things to work through. Look at this as her giving you space to work through your things as well 
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Im going through the exact same thing, I finally stopped texting her, even though she stopped answering a month ago. Im getting through it one day at a time. Going to meetings, work. I'll get a sponsor soon and work the steps. Every time I think about her and my little girls, I say the Serenity prayer: multiple times a day!!!
Hang in there brother, I'm too the point that it's starting to hurt less and less
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I struggled with the same thing for 23 years, . That's the reason I started smoking crack, 23 years is a long time, so now it's just a excuse,, . I had to stop looking for love in all the wrong places, I was with her for 29 years, my relapses don't last for many months any More, just a couple of days, and now I am accepting the fact that she not coming back,even though I still think about her it's time to get on with my life and recovery, my 4th step was painful..no one said it would be easy, but that it would be worth it.serinity prayer helps a lot.. recovering.
I stayed in a bottle for years because I couldn't let go. Don't lose the precious life you have due to someone else. It is a regret you certainly don't need to add.
Letting go is so very hard!! I'm going through a similar situation. Any time I start to think about him I busy myself. I personally like to go for a walk and look around at all the awesome and beautiful things in life. Sounds hokey, I know. But you have to let go for yourself. Maybe this is life telling you she wasn't your "one" and you're being pushed towards your forever person? Lots of hugs sent your way
@alyse380760 look at it from this perspective... You might have just dodged a bullet. It's time to move on. Don't even allow it to have, if not occupy, free rent in your head.