I'm just struggling with dealing with life on life's terms cause it seems that no matter what I do life always wins cause life cheats every time
You’re not wrong. I had to change my perspective to change my life. Changing my perspective allows me to choose my feelings which changes my experience. Only sober do I have the power to do this. 17 years sober and grateful. I’m here if you want to talk to have any questions
Life is better clean. Don't spend money and make better decisions
I speak from the heart and experience, give your burdens to your higher power and he will make straight your path. But it's up to you totally to trust and believe he'll do it, hope this helps
Ya, I’m not real fond of life’s terms either. There’s times I swear the powers that be are f-ing with me and my first inclination is to fight tooth and nail. But recovery has helped me see that not only is this not really an effective strategy, but it makes me miserable. Acceptance isn’t easy but it is helpful in the way Danny mentioned. Perspective is everything