Long post I need to vent

As of today i have 504 days sober. I attend regular AA meetings and work my program very well. Ive been with my husband for 8 years. He told me I needed to go to AA. A few months after he said that I went. I noticed when I stopped drinking he drank more. I told him a few months ago me and my 2 preteen daughters (whom are not biologically his) are going to move out and we need to separate. His response was OK abd the rolled over and went to bed. He isolates himself and drank for hours a day. Barely make family time priority. Will come to bed smelling like liquor. Won’t go to kids weekend athletics events because he will drink past midnight. Has almost burned down our house while under influence. He wont support nothing AA related I’m involved with.I’ve been looking into some apartments for rent because i must protect my sobriety. I never thought in the process i will gain sobriety but lose my spouse

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KeOndra thanks for sharing. I feel your pain. You are absolutely smart to make your sobriety and your children your number one priority! We must!
Don’t worry too much, everything will work itself out. Have you considered al-anon . Org
Check it out. I’m confident that you will find support and real help for this matter.
I’m here if you ever want to talk

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You can only better your life and situations, especially involving other people in our lives, BY TAKING CARE OF OURSELVES AND OUR SOBRIETY, 1st

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