Loosid Sober Tip of the Day April 03

The power of the pause.

Many times, when emotions run high, we are very tempted to act out. We may refrain from the drink or drug but may act out in many other ways.

When you are in these situations, know the power of inaction and the ability to pause.

You may want to send the angry text or email or tell off someone in person or over the phone. Whenever you find yourself in these situations, PAUSE.

Does it need to be said? Does it need to be said now? In 12- Step programs we ask our higher power to direct our thinking as to the next right thought or action.

This ability to restraint of pen and tongue is one of the most powerful tools you have. Use that tool whenever you need. It’s always there.

When you find yourself agitated today, or are not sure what action to take, PAUSE. Ask for guidance and direction. If you don’t have a higher power, call a friend who is in recovery and can identify.

How did this tip resonate with you? Let us know your thoughts below. There are many people in the Loosid community who need to hear what you have to say.

With Love, Loosid :pray::heart:

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That helps me a lot because I work in the field as a counselor in a treatment center and Pause is one of the tools that helps me

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I have two rules that I use in situations like that and I’ll share them you.

1 comes from Ann Landers. MYOB which stands for mine your own business.

2 comes from a look my wife gives me. Which means, keep your mouth shut.

I find when I follow those two rules. I don’t stick my foot in my mouth and make matters worse. It also helps to say a little prayer for the person or situation that’s causing you the anxiety.

I hope this helped. In the meantime don’t drink or do drugs and go to meetings. Remember this simple truth meeting makers make it.

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Got the notification for this at just the right time. Godshot.

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This resonates with me because my mouth gets me in trouble a lot!

Helps a lot .you don't always have to say anything.

Some times opening your mouth can be worse