Loosid Sober Tip of the Day April 13

The built-in forgetter.

When we look at our past, when tempted to take a drink or use substances, we think of the relief it will bring. Sadly, too many of us forget the negative things that have happened when we have used in the past.

We have a built-in forgetter.

Our built-in forgetter gives us no protection from the next drink or drug. If we are not working a spiritual program of recovery and have not built a sober network to reach out to, more often than not, we use again.

This is why it is so important to build a sober support system around you.

One great way to eliminate the built-in forgetter is to do the following:

Take a sheet of paper or write on your phone all the bad things that have happened when you have used alcohol or drugs.

If you are fearless and thorough your list may be quite long.

On the bottom of your list, write down the names and numbers of your support network.

Any time you think about picking up that drink or that drug, pull out that list and read it.

Then call your support network. It will most likely save your life.

How did this tip resonate with you? Let us know your thoughts below. There are many people in the Loosid community who need to hear what you have to say.

With Love, Loosid :pray::heart:

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So true…”The built in forgetter,”
I assured myself, my forgetting was due to everything, but the problem, Alcoholism .:woman_shrugging:t2:

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I used this tip.durimf my first few months, and it felt good. I had a reminder that I wasn't just in this alone. I looked at my network and was like, if they have faith in me, then I really am worth it. Took a few conversations to realize that I actually deserved to be sober and happy. Now I have 2 years and a few days and I couldn't be much prouder. I also have tried to use this for a fried6 and realized that you must be strong and brave. Be willing to reach out. SO make sure your list of support are people you trust and are non judgemental. Stay strong :muscle:t4: :metal:

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I didn't do this but I think it's a great idea! I hope anyone in early recovery will try this. I started building a support network when I was newly sober. It was suggested by others in the meetings and it definitely helped

That makes perfect since. Finding a group and getting started is hard for me. I wish there were a zoom for ana. I would like it to be ana because I'm both.