Loosid Sober Tip of the Day April 22

The power of the pause.

Many times, when emotions run high, we are very tempted to act out. We may refrain from the drink or drug but may act out in many other ways.

When you are in these situations, know the power of inaction and the ability to pause.

You may want to send the angry text or email or tell off someone in person or over the phone. Whenever you find yourself in these situations, PAUSE.

Does it need to be said? Does it need to be said now? In 12- Step programs we ask our higher power to direct our thinking as to the next right thought or action.

This ability to restraint of pen and tongue is one of the most powerful tools you have. Use that tool whenever you need. It’s always there.

When you find yourself agitated today, or are not sure what action to take, PAUSE. Ask for guidance and direction. If you don’t have a higher power, call a friend who is in recovery and can identify.

How did this tip resonate with you? Let us know your thoughts below. There are many people in the Loosid community who need to hear what you have to say.

With Love, Loosid :pray::heart:

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Yes! This tip is powerful. I have to bit my tongue :tongue: because I use this tool… however, I’m human, I don’t always remember to use this tool. Practice makes habit.
Step 11, we pause when agitated. We ask our higher power for directions. For the right words and actions.
I like to keep God at the forefront throughout my day. I e noticed when I do this my thoughts are of kindliness. When I tend to go back to old ways my thoughts are more selfish. It’s a lot of work to maintain perfect adherence! Lol we are not Saints.

Power of the Pause!! TGIF fellow alcoholics!!

This is great advice. Lately, I'm not in those agitated moods, and I feel great. I know it's inevitable that I will get in a mood at some point. I will heed this advice - pause.

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I still have a problem with not letting my temper get the best of me.. especially when I try to help people and they’re so unappreciative of me.. when they use me and never have a kind word to say.. but I try…!!

Sure pause say nothing let that stuff fester and then blow out when you cant hold it back anymore, maybe get it oit of systwn instead or maybe im just angry and all the self help strategies that i want tick off many or maybe i should just pause