Loosid Sober Tip of the Day April 6

The built-in forgetter.

When we look at our past, when tempted to take a drink or use substances, we think of the relief it will bring. Sadly, too many of us forget the negative things that have happened when we have used in the past.

We have a built-in forgetter.

Our built-in forgetter gives us no protection from the next drink or drug. If we are not working a spiritual program of recovery and have not built a sober network to reach out to, more often than not, we use again.

This is why it is so important to build a sober support system around you.

One great way to eliminate the built-in forgetter is to do the following:

Take a sheet of paper or write on your phone all the bad things that have happened when you have used alcohol or drugs.

If you are fearless and thorough your list may be quite long.

On the bottom of your list, write down the names and numbers of your support network.

Any time you think about picking up that drink or that drug, pull out that list and read it.

Then call your support network. It will most likely save your life.

How did this tip resonate with you? Let us know your thoughts below. There are many people in the Loosid community who need to hear what you have to say.

With Love, Loosid :pray::heart:

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Great information..!

I love when the tips are actually tangible things you can DO. This is great!

That dang built in Forgetter! It has failed me a few times before I got involved in a spiritual program of AA. As our bodies and minds are beautiful mechanisms, we must turn to a power greater than ourselves to guide us through our lives once we get sober in order to stay sober. If you’re an alcoholic of my type this will ring true.

I’m constantly being reminded of my alcoholism by continually working the 12 steps of Alcoholics Anonymous daily. This is how I’m able to remember just how terrible my life was while I was drinking and using.

Today I will make an effort to be of service to all that come in contact with me.

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Oh yes, glad AA works for you! It’s a big world.. connection through other through other methods have worked for me! Peace out

About a month ago I started writing down every bad experience I had, that I can remember, due to alcohol. Over 30 years they pile up. I’ve had a couple of days where anxiety was running wild and I picked up my notebook and read over everything before I did something stupid. I need to work on a support group to keep me better grounded. That being said, it sure is amazing not waking up with a hangover or shaking, reaching for a bottle at 8:30am.

Great message I love it

This is really great information and honestly this is some thing that I’m going to use on a daily basis. One of the best feelings in the world is knowing that I have a safe place to come to if I need help and I just want to thank each and everyone of you for all of your support

Definitely do NOT have that built in forgetter. I am reminded daily of what I lost. Nooo thank you! Definitely can’t forget what alcohol robbed me of. Never will.