Loosid Sober Tip of the Day August 17

Day 1

Every year, millions of people come into recovery on Day 1.

This may mean we are entering recovery for the first time.

For others, it may be because we are coming off of a relapse.

There is a false stigma that coming in with 1 day is something to be ashamed of. Sadly, millions of people die because of this complete untruth.

The baffling question is, if 100% of us started with 1 day, why are we ashamed? The truth is, not only is sobriety not to be ashamed of, but shows tremendous courage.

Sobriety does not mean all of us get sober the first time and stay sober as, unfortunately, many of us take our will back and relapse over and over again until we finally surrender to the winning team.

We say unfortunately, not because relapse happens, but because many of us never make it back.

If you are on day 1, take solace in the fact that we have all been there. There is not one of us who hasn’t.

Relapse doesn’t have to be a part of our recovery journey, but if it is, our message to you is WELCOME, WE LOVE YOU, and are so glad you are here. STAY.

If you are coming into recovery for the first time, our message is, WELCOME, WE LOVE YOU, and are so glad you are here. STAY.

Whatever amount of time you have, you know what day 1 feels like. If you have some sober time, share with others below what it was like for you and any suggestions you have to help.

If you are new, share what you are feeling. In fact, share like your life depends upon it… because it does.

There are many people in the Loosid community who need to hear what you have to say.

With Love, Loosid :pray::heart:

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This hits home.The multiple times I quit drinking I just thought I could control my drinking. I thought it would solve my problems but, it was the opposite. Blackouts, going to jail, etc.. It's very sad when you have to call your daughter from jail. Shame that's all I felt. I was also self medicating myself from my mental disorders. Now, I know drinking doesn't make it better. It makes it worse. I don't think I can survive another relapse.

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This hits home this is my day one. Relapse after relapse I’m so tired of this. I hate this for me. I just wanna be done

I have been trying this since September of 1992 I have had so many 1st days that I can’t count them all Yesterday I celebrated 19yrs of continuous sobriety and for that I am truly grateful Never be ashamed of relapse Be happy that you made it back So many never do

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I spent my first 27 Days of this wonderful Journey in a Jail cell

Same!! It's amazing how many consequences we experience and yet keep going back. Insanity! But the addiction is strong. There comes a point where we're just done. We know there's been so much damage and we want off this rollercoaster. I'm off and NEVER want back on!

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