Loosid Sober Tip of the Day August 26

Why me vs. Why Me

Many times, people ask to themselves, ‘Why did this happen to me?’ … ‘Why did I have to be an alcoholic (or addict)’ …‘Why can’t I drink?’… Why can I not control my drinking when so many people can?’

It is incredibly important to remember, there are two ways you can approach ‘why me’

There is another side of why me.

‘Why am I so lucky to have the ability to get better when so many others don’t?’

‘Why am I so lucky that I have a disease that is 100% treatable so long as I work a program on a daily basis?’

‘Why was I able to get the gifts of the program while so many other people are sick and suffering.’

‘Why am I so lucky to change my life and live in service to others… and to the same people I used to hurt?’

Choose to pick the right ‘why me’ today. If you are reading this it means you have started your journey to build a beautiful life

How did this tip resonate with you? Let us know your thoughts below. What’s your why me? There are many people in the Loosid community who need to hear what you have to say.

With Love, Loosid :pray::heart:

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Good stuff.

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Multiple times I went back to drinking thinking I could control my drinking. It didn't work. I was always jealous that others could but, I couldn't. Today, I know I can't suffer another relapse. The last time going cold turkey I wish I was dead. I can't go back to that life other wise I know I won't be here.

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Amen :pray:t2:

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Reminds me of my first recovery meeting, someone said we are the “Chosen” ones. Now that’s a perspective shift! Chosen to help others!

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Why me is a good thing!