Loosid Sober Tip of the Day August 30

The power of the pause.

Many times, when emotions run high, we are very tempted to act out. We may refrain from the drink or drug but may act out in many other ways.

When you are in these situations, know the power of inaction and the ability to pause.

You may want to send the angry text or email or tell off someone in person or over the phone. Whenever you find yourself in these situations, PAUSE.

Does it need to be said? Does it need to be said now? In 12- Step programs we ask our higher power to direct our thinking as to the next right thought or action.

This ability to restraint of pen and tongue is one of the most powerful tools you have. Use that tool whenever you need. It’s always there.

When you find yourself agitated today, or are not sure what action to take, PAUSE. Ask for guidance and direction. If you don’t have a higher power, call a friend who is in recovery and can identify.

How did this tip resonate with you? Let us know your thoughts below. There are many people in the Loosid community who need to hear what you have to say.

With Love, Loosid :pray::heart:

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Yes I need to learn this sober

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Excellent insight. Gratitude!

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I should only react when there are gunshots or a fire. Any other time. It never works out well

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I shared at a meeting the other day that I am clumsy. I am always running into door frames, chairs, tables, anything I get in the way of. And I was told God is reminding me to stop, and slow down. I am more aware, I am not rushing anymore.

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One thing
I’ve noticed….since a
Long pause
From drinking
Is
My patience with people…I used to lash out and
Make
Fun of
People
At
The stupidest little things….remaining
Calm and letting the moment
Sink in is a way better path for me…..at peace….

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Yep, I’m going to be making an apology call later today because I didn’t pause and sent the email.

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