Loosid Sober Tip of the Day December 13

When entering our recovery journey, many of us want to get back everything we lost immediately.

A good number of us have lost our jobs or our homes. Others may still have our jobs or homes but have lost the trust of our family and friends. There are others amongst us who have lost our freedom.

Whatever the case, we come into recovery having lost quite a bit and we want everything back right away.

The journey of a million miles begins with the first step.

The problem is, we want to take the elevator.

The truth is what we want is the opposite of what we need.

We are not ready for the elevator. We need to take the steps.

The trick is to focus on enjoying the experience of every step. Every amend. Every repaired relationship. Every new job.

Eventually, we will understand why taking the steps is so important.

Taking the steps allows us the time to appreciate the life we are re-building. We will come to cherish it. We will be beyond grateful we never took the elevator, as each and every step we take strengthens our sobriety and increases our humility.

Then the magical time will happen when it’s our turn to show another struggling addict the importance of taking the steps.

Be kind to yourself today. Just by reading this, know that you have just taken another giant step.

How did this tip resonate with you? Let us know your thoughts below. There are many people in the Loosid community who need to hear what you have to say.
With Love, Loosid :pray::heart:

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I needed this today! I stopped drinking 3 1/2 years ago, but I’m just now getting started with a sponsor and doing the 12 steps. I’m going through the potential end of a relationship right now, and I’ve been in such a hurry to show my ex-girlfriend that I’m making improvements and starting to change behaviors. But, at the same time, I am harboring resentment and anger. She knows that these things take time and says she needs to see more consistency from me. I have been impatient with that outlook. I want us to get back to what I felt was a wonderful relationship, but I need to take the steps and not the elevator. Thank you for this perspective!

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I tell my students this often: if you're on the stairs, you can't skip steps until you're comfortable walking or else you'll fall; you can only skip steps when you're ready to skip them so don't rush the process.

I like how the little things help out a lot

I had started to repair my broken family and marriage and I was forcing thing’s because of my disease I didn’t have the tools to handle real life my ex wife pushed away and I acted like a crazy person and ran her off in the process. I was on the 5th step and stopped going to meetings because I was working two jobs trying to take care of her and living on someone’s couch. Instead of getting myself straight and working the program. I lost everything in the process because we want it now. Slow down and have some self care during the step process

Slowing down to do the step work is a transformational process, I have found. When I go to my job in the morning I take nine floors of stairs to get to my desk. I will be thinking about this sober tip when I take the stairs tomorrow and thereafter. I thank God for a solution to my problems.