Loosid Sober Tip of the Day December 29

Stepping into the solution.

If we focus on the problem the problem increases. If we focus on the solution, the solution increases.

When we are in our active addiction, most of us are not able to be on a spiritual path, as a spiritual path consists of leaning into life and facing life on life’s terms, whereas in our addiction, we are putting substances in our body to blot out what’s bothering us.

As a result, our ‘problems’ keep adding up until there is so much pain that it becomes intolerable.

The first part of stepping into the solution is knowing there is one.

There are many of us who feel there is no problem at all.

There are still many others who are aware of our ‘problems’ yet feel like there is no way to turn our lives around. Too much damage has been done.

The truth is, there are and will always be challenges.

Just for today, be open to the fact that there are solutions that reside on the other side.

Just for today, take notice how much time you spend on the problem, compared to the amount of time you spend on trying to solve it.

Are you complaining about the thorn in your shoe or are you taking your shoe off to see where the thorn is?

To start, take out a sheet of paper and make two columns. Label one, PROBLEM. Name the other, SOLUTION.

Then scratch out the word ‘problem’ and replace it with CHALLENGE. Scratch out the word ‘solution’ and replace it with OPPORTUNITY.

More on this tomorrow. You are off to a great start! 

How did this tip resonate with you? Do you find yourself focusing on the problems in your life? How much time do you spend on the solution? Post your comment below. There are many people in the Loosid community who need to hear what you have to say.

With Love, Loosid :pray::heart:

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Perfect.!!:+1::+1:

Wisdom to know the difference :heart:

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I love this!!

God can I can't so just let him

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Make sure you stay out your own way

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I like it. :+1:

Wow. Needed to hear this today. Always stay in the solution my friends!!!!

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Focusing on solutions rather than the problems!

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Nice!

Hii need help

Wow this was the day I said No more! This is exactly how I was feeling . Constant problems one after the other abs the anxiety was so overwhelming I didn’t know if I could get through the next minute. The anxiety came from my acting from drinking and trying to defend my behavior. I just said my god it’s me. . And now it’s truly seems so much lighter and brighter knowing I have a solution. The solution is sobriety/ and yes there will triggers and hard days but I will save and reread this to bring me back to my WHY!.

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I am reviewing, rereading some of my favorite tips; this one is right at the top! Thank you for these and this community.

…for this community. Y’all know what I meant:).