Loosid Sober Tip of the Day December 30

The challenge and the opportunity.

Yesterday, we discussed how so much of our time is often spent on focusing on our problems.

At the end of yesterday’s tip, we started a worksheet by simply creating two columns on top. PROBLEMS on one side, and SOLUTIONS on the other.

We then replaced ‘problems’ with CHALLENGE and ‘solutions’ with OPPORTUNITY.

The words we write or say, dictates our emotional distress or serenity.

The word PROBLEM, in and of itself puts most of us in a negative mindset. Changing the word to CHALLENGE can create a drastic shift in our attitude.

Just for today, write down the top 5 challenges you have on the left side of the column.

On the right side, write down a few steps that you can take for each one to address that problem.

You will realize that there are multiple opportunities to address each challenge and that the opportunity column (formerly known as the solution column) starts filling up more space.

Now you have started focusing on the solution.

Make sure to give yourself credit for doing this today. Congratulate yourself the same way you would someone else. You deserve it.

How did this tip resonate with you? What did your list look like? If you didn’t have a chance to make a list yet, tell us your thoughts. Post your comment below. There are many people in the Loosid community who need to hear what you have to say.

With Love, Loosid :pray::heart:

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Just want to say first of all how much this site helps me esp w focusing on the problems and the people who go along w the problem :face_with_raised_eyebrow:I have so much more good to look at and forward to …esp my beautiful animals who love me finally going Spaulding Rehab and working e school toward new career been so depressed leaving 18 year career as Masssge Therapist my body just won’t let me anymore , just the fact I’m still sober Neil pointed out to me I’d a miracle !!!!im going to start each day 5 things I’m grateful for today!!!

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3 wks sober today! Thx Loosid community for helping! Daily tips super helpful!

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Are semantics the way we want to approach sobriety? Not recognizing things for what they actually are kept us sick far too long & it’s not trouble if you’re always getting out of it. Accountability is insanely important in this. I understand not using negative self talk but pen to paper we should not be afraid of being brutally honest with ourselves.

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