Loosid Sober Tip of the Day February 16

Looking further into the stigma of shame & guilt.

The definition of stigma is a mark of shame or discredit. A STAIN

The stigma that alcoholism or addiction is something to be ashamed of prevents millions of us from getting the help we need.

This is a stigma and a stain that needs to be erased because it kills the very millions mentioned above who buy into it.

Far too many of us feel it is our fault (guilt) that we cannot handle substances, while so many others can.

What you need to know is that it is not your fault.

We cannot wish it away any more than we can wish away diabetes or high blood pressure.

It is a disease and very thankfully, it is one that is 100% treatable provided that we follow a spiritual program.

It is also critical to understand you are not alone. There are tens of millions of us who share this same common bond that we can connect with and who can show you what it takes to get to the other side.

Once we understand this, the guilt and shame often completely evaporates on the spot and we become willing to receive help.

If you are new to recovery, it is absolutely critical that you know this. If you are confused, PLEASE ask questions below as our entire community is here to help you.

If you have been in recovery for a while, take this time to share some tips to let the newcomers understand they are not alone.

There are many people in the Loosid community who need to hear what you have to say.

With Love, Loosid :pray::heart:

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This hits home with the courts and the way they shame owi offenders. Locking them up instead of trying to get them help.

We pass by alcoholics every day in our vehicles in the grocery store even on job interviews an alcoholic is lurking nearby. One reason why I love sharing my story to others I met. Never know who needs to hear it.

I really understand just how strong this really is now that I've lapsed on the day I would have been sober 6 months. The overwhelming urge I had to drink. I did not use NOT one new tool I learned! Not my sponsor, not :pray:, not a call to my sober friends, church friends, I panicked because of financial insecurity. Only to find a check in the mail two days later. Had I held on to my faith. I had my shame party and now I'm three days sober. Dang

There will probably always be stigma associated with addiction. That's why it's so important to become involved in a recovery community. Nowhere else can we be surrounded by people like us, who want to help each other and support each other through all the ups and downs of learning how to live life sober. I thank God for my recovery and leading me to the people who help me stay sober. Sober support has been my key to sobriety :old_key::pray::slightly_smiling_face: