Loosid Sober Tip of the Day February 4

Much like we must learn how to handle resentment on a daily basis, we must also do the same with fear.

In recovery, there are a few strong acronyms we use for fear. One concentrates how we often let something that has not yet happened and may never happen run our lives.

F-E-A-R.

False expectations appearing real.

We have discussed this quite a bit and now if we are to live a life of serenity, we must learn to avoid worrying about the future, in the same way we can never regret the past.

There is another beautiful, very powerful acronym for fear.

F-E-A-R.

Face everything and recover.

This is the key to the kingdom. So many of us do not want to lean in and look into what it is that is causing our fear.

The truth is, leaning in and facing everything is uncomfortable.

It is also true that facing everything and going through that level of discomfort is the only thing that allows us to get to the other side.

In 12-Step programs, this is done in our inventory in steps 4 & 5, and in our amends steps, which are 8 & 9.

Just for today, be open to the possibility of facing everything that is blocking you.

You owe it to yourself the gift of a beautiful life.

How did this tip resonate with you? Let us know your thoughts below. There are many people in the Loosid community who need to hear what you have to say.

With Love, Loosid :pray::heart:

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Facing my reality was probably the hardest thing I’ve had to deal with in sobriety, especially at the beginning. No job, no money, broken relationships, loneliness, etc. But for me when I was literally at the end contemplating suicide, I literally broke down and fell down on my knees and asked God to take these burdens off of me. I cannot begin to express that moment of a million tons of weight leaving my heart and soul, being replaced by His love and peace. It was the best euphoria I had ever experienced. I realize that people doubt this can happen but I’m here to say it 100% did. Did my problems go away completely? Of course not. But I was given the clarity in sobriety to prioritize and deal with each one head on (which is continue to do on a daily basis). I am now over 6 months no alcohol, drugs or even immoral activity (another major issues- the trifecta of self destruction). Though I have days when I wonder if God is listening, He is usually quick to give a response and open the doors based on His will. Giving up control of your life to God is very difficult for so many. However, when you are in addiction you have already lost all control and I’ll take the better of the 2 options. So now I have an amazing job; not one that’s going to make me wealthy but a great opportunity and I’m happy. I’m close to getting my license back. I have a beautiful home and food on the table and clothes to wear. And most importantly, those relationships are mending daily. All I did was take that leap of faith and trust (”In you, Lord my God, I put my trust.“
‭‭Psalms‬ ‭25‬:‭1‬). I pray for each of you daily the same I do for myself: wisdom, courage, strength, discernment, peace and empathy. God bless you all.

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