Loosid Sober Tip of the Day January 09

Looking further into the stigma of shame & guilt.

The definition of stigma is a mark of shame or discredit. A STAIN

The stigma that alcoholism or addiction is something to be ashamed of prevents millions of us from getting the help we need.

This is a stigma and a stain that needs to be erased because it kills the very millions mentioned above who buy into it.

Far too many of us feel it is our fault (guilt) that we cannot handle substances, while so many others can.

What you need to know is that it is not your fault.

We cannot wish it away any more than we can wish away diabetes or high blood pressure.

It is a disease and very thankfully, it is one that is 100% treatable provided that we follow a spiritual program.

It is also critical to understand you are not alone. There are tens of millions of us who share this same common bond that we can connect with and who can show you what it takes to get to the other side.

Once we understand this, the guilt and shame often completely evaporates on the spot and we become willing to receive help.

If you are new to recovery, it is absolutely critical that you know this. If you are confused, PLEASE ask questions below as our entire community is here to help you.

If you have been in recovery for a while, take this time to share some tips to let the newcomers understand they are not alone.

There are many people in the Loosid community who need to hear what you have to say.

With Love, Loosid :pray::heart:

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I always felt this way and sometimes still do. I always thought how did I become this?When there are other people that are just a social drinker. I realized I'm not the only one that can't drink at all unless I want to die.

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I'm 1 of 5 siblings who all drink I always said why am I the only one that can't handle it ! I had to accept I got the disease they didn't. Thank God it's treatable !

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My shame and fear kept me in active addiction for too many years. Slowly but surely I've learned the disease of addiction is NOT our fault but RECOVERY is totally under OUR control. Remember you are not alone and there a whole community of us who have been in the newcomers shoes you just have to take that first step and ask for help. #wedorecover

Seriously amazing app and a true partner in my road and daily walk in recovery :heart: I use it everyday and barely notice it.. it has become part of my daily walk!