Loosid Sober Tip of the Day January 29

The power of the pause.

Many times, when emotions run high, we are very tempted to act out. We may refrain from the drink or drug but may act out in many other ways.

When you are in these situations, know the power of inaction and the ability to pause.

You may want to send the angry text or email or tell off someone in person or over the phone. Whenever you find yourself in these situations, PAUSE.

Does it need to be said? Does it need to be said now? In 12- Step programs we ask our higher power to direct our thinking as to the next right thought or action.

This ability to restraint of pen and tongue is one of the most powerful tools you have. Use that tool whenever you need. It’s always there.

When you find yourself agitated today, or are not sure what action to take, PAUSE. Ask for guidance and direction. If you don’t have a higher power, call a friend who is in recovery and can identify.

How did this tip resonate with you? Let us know your thoughts below. There are many people in the Loosid community who need to hear what you have to say.

With Love, Loosid :pray::heart:

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When is my anger justified.?
Surely I’m not a doormat?

Think its not about never being angry its about how we learn to express it or let it subside before any action. Many times we react purely with the emotion impulsively. Different to pause, calm and center then speak our tuth

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This resonates with me big time. I'm a big fan of Addiction Recovery guided journaling, worksheets, workbooks, gratitude journaling, and scribing AKA free writing after prayer and meditation. It works for me and hopefully me sharing this will encourage others in this wonderful community.
All the best,
Stephanie M. :paw_prints:
:purple_heart::sparkles::purple_heart::pray:t2::purple_heart::star2:

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Wow! Just PAUSE!!