Loosid Sober Tip of the Day Jul 06

When entering our recovery journey, many of us want to get back everything we lost immediately.

A good number of us have lost our jobs or our homes. Others may still have our jobs or homes but have lost the trust of our family and friends. There are others amongst us who have lost our freedom.

Whatever the case, we come into recovery having lost quite a bit and we want everything back right away.

The journey of a million miles begins with the first step.

The problem is, we want to take the elevator.

The truth is what we want is the opposite of what we need.

We are not ready for the elevator. We need to take the steps.

The trick is to focus on enjoying the experience of every step. Every amend. Every repaired relationship. Every new job.

Eventually, we will understand why taking the steps is so important.

Taking the steps allows us the time to appreciate the life we are re-building. We will come to cherish it. We will be beyond grateful we never took the elevator, as each and every step we take strengthens our sobriety and increases our humility.

Then the magical time will happen when it’s our turn to show another struggling addict the importance of taking the steps.

Be kind to yourself today. Just by reading this, know that you have just taken another giant step.

How did this tip resonate with you? Let us know your thoughts below. There are many people in the Loosid community who need to hear what you have to say.
With Love, Loosid :pray::heart:

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Good morning, Loosid!

As I am reading the sober tip today, it reminds me of the seasons I have gone through and I am going through now I am almost a year clean from methamphetamine. I moved out of my hometown. I left everything behind. I moved in with my boyfriend in five years I woke up one day and realized I need to work on me so I slowly start moving my things out of the apartment or the house that we had together, and I got me in an apartment in the town, the next town, and with I thought that we can work on one another in separate homes and then we would reunite, but it was God‘s way of stepping in and telling me that that was not gonna happen for me to get away from him and so now today, I am recovering, not only recovering addict, but I’m also in recovery from a trauma bond, a narcissist and antisocial man that was very abusive physically mentally emotionally so whenever you say this about taking steps and it’s not an elevator in today sober tip it resonates with me as well. It’s very important to take one step at a time because emotionally mentally I think that we’re not in the position to take the elevator or it would just be a downfall the elevator will crash. The cables will come disconnect whatever the case may be you have to take us slow that way whenever you do take the one step you start building energy for the second step and so forth that’s been my experience I’m a talker and I keep going, but I just wanted to share y’all. Have a blessed day.

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Good morning my family. I am a true example of what was loss will come back even bigger and better when I was in my insanity my addiction I gave up my children for my drug of choice which is alcohol after 27 years and 10 years in recovery I I just celebrated this Fourth of July six years of having my children back in my life. Yes, it was a journey, and I did get discouraged, but prayer and meditation would help me. The waiting is hard, but it is rewarding if you don’t give up and continue working, the program of recovery The promises in our program are true. The spirituality is that you have to have faith and for me the want of having my children back was the harder I worked the program also something that I didn’t realize till now that I’m back with my children all the hard work that I put in recovery getting myself together humbling myself acknowledging that it’s OK for people to be wrong and you don’t have to be right all of that worked and help me when I was dealing with my children their questions and they’re feeling of abandonment. I was able to answer those questions to themonly because I worked on myself.

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Not taking shortcuts to recovery is important. Each step taken to recovery is like a brick in a wall that will help solidify our recovery.

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Thanks