Loosid Sober Tip of the Day July 07

Home is not where you live but where they understand you.

So many of us are confused or even frustrated why our friends or loved ones don’t understand why we cannot stop on our self-will alone.

Even more of us buy into what our friends or loved ones tell us about our addiction.

They may say we don’t have enough willpower. They may tell us to just say no.

They may also try to explain to us if they can moderate their drinking, we should be able to do the same. This is 100% incorrect.

Don’t be upset with them. Not even for a minute. Remember, those amongst us no explanation is necessary. Those not amongst us, no explanation is possible.

This is why it is of critical importance to surround yourself with other people who share your common bond. It matters not where we come from.

We may come from a beautiful loving home, or we way come from a place where home was absolute chaos.

Each day, remember that home is not where you live but where they understand you.

Find your home today. Connect with others who understand. Though our experiences may be different, the feelings of isolation are the same.

How did this tip resonate with you? Let us know your thoughts below. There are many people in the Loosid community who need to hear what you have to say.

With Love, Loosid :pray::heart:

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I’m a parent . Always good to read a valid explanation .

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I need a group of people/friends. AA is not for me. Still drinking on and off. Any ideas. Thanks, Carl Bloomington/ Normal, IL

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I love this!!!! I’m going through situation even though I have almost 9 months sober.

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Some normies will never get it. I am blessed to have supportive, loving Normies in my life and amazing recovering people as well

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Looking for the similarities, rather than the differences, has been key. I wouldn’t have made it to 6 years sober without meetings, my sponsor (life-line) or my AA family. I love alcoholics & Alcoholics Anonymous!

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This reading & meditation is superb ! Waving :wave::ocean: to Scott G on this from Tallahassee T-town FL :grin: