Loosid Sober Tip of the Day June 1

When entering our recovery journey, many of us want to get back everything we lost immediately.

A good number of us have lost our jobs or our homes. Others may still have our jobs or homes but have lost the trust of our family and friends. There are others amongst us who have lost our freedom.

Whatever the case, we come into recovery having lost quite a bit and we want everything back right away.

The journey of a million miles begins with the first step.

The problem is, we want to take the elevator.

The truth is what we want is the opposite of what we need.

We are not ready for the elevator. We need to take the steps.

The trick is to focus on enjoying the experience of every step. Every amend. Every repaired relationship. Every new job.

Eventually, we will understand why taking the steps is so important.

Taking the steps allows us the time to appreciate the life we are re-building. We will come to cherish it. We will be beyond grateful we never took the elevator, as each and every step we take strengthens our sobriety and increases our humility.

Then the magical time will happen when it’s our turn to show another struggling addict the importance of taking the steps.

Be kind to yourself today. Just by reading this, know that you have just taken another giant step.

How did this tip resonate with you? Let us know your thoughts below. There are many people in the Loosid community who need to hear what you have to say.

With Love, Loosid :pray::heart:

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Oh I can totally relate to wanting my stuff back! What I felt in early sobriety was something Like this; lost, defeated, worthless, confused and hatred. If I could only get my stuff back all of this would go away. Then I was able to get my belongings back. Two storage units later and lots of money and time spent storing and organizing my stuff! I eventually sold, donated and threw away a lot of my stuff.
The lesson I learned was material stuff can’t fill the God size hole I had. The relationship with my ex couldn’t fix me either.
With all of the steps I’ve taken I’m right where I’m supposed to be. I’m content with my life today. It’s not always easy but I can take another step towards growth and humility rather then numbing out or isolating.

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Very well stated. I truly appreciate each step I am going thru in recovery.