Loosid Sober Tip of the Day June 26

The power of the pause.

Many times, when emotions run high, we are very tempted to act out. We may refrain from the drink or drug but may act out in many other ways.

When you are in these situations, know the power of inaction and the ability to pause.

You may want to send the angry text or email or tell off someone in person or over the phone. Whenever you find yourself in these situations, PAUSE.

Does it need to be said? Does it need to be said now? In 12- Step programs we ask our higher power to direct our thinking as to the next right thought or action.

This ability to restraint of pen and tongue is one of the most powerful tools you have. Use that tool whenever you need. It’s always there.

When you find yourself agitated today, or are not sure what action to take, PAUSE. Ask for guidance and direction. If you don’t have a higher power, call a friend who is in recovery and can identify.

How did this tip resonate with you? Let us know your thoughts below. There are many people in the Loosid community who need to hear what you have to say.

With Love, Loosid :pray::heart:

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I love that! That’s great. I need to practice that myself.

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Power of the Pause!!!

When I pause before I speak I am always 100% glad that I did!!!!! That’s the best gift I’ve been given in recovery is “THE PAUSE BUTTON”

Sounds like part of the 11th step! Love it!

"As we go through the day we pause, when agitated or doubtful, and ask for the right thought or action. We constantly remind ourselves we are no longer running the show, humbly saying to ourselves many times each day 'Thy will be done.' "

(p. 87-88)
Prayer
God, I'm agitated and doubtful right now. Help me to stop and remember that I've made a decision to let You be my God. Give me the right thoughts and actions. God save me from fear, anger, worry, self-pity or foolish decisions that Your will not mine be done.

AMEN :pray:

This is one of the hardest inaction/actions to take in early sobriety. I’ve caused more wreckage in sobriety because I didn’t have this tool. After practicing this tool it’s almost become a habit. “We cease fighting anything and anyone, including alcohol.”

I’d like to Add that we will begin to put up healthy boundaries towards those who step on our toes. This also takes practice and patience.

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I love this. I needed this today. 143 Days today. Thank you.

The pause is so important. Thanks for the reminder!