Loosid Sober Tip of the Day March 13

The power of the pause.

Many times, when emotions run high, we are very tempted to act out. We may refrain from the drink or drug but may act out in many other ways.

When you are in these situations, know the power of inaction and the ability to pause.

You may want to send the angry text or email or tell off someone in person or over the phone. Whenever you find yourself in these situations, PAUSE.

Does it need to be said? Does it need to be said now? In 12- Step programs we ask our higher power to direct our thinking as to the next right thought or action.

This ability to restraint of pen and tongue is one of the most powerful tools you have. Use that tool whenever you need. It’s always there.

When you find yourself agitated today, or are not sure what action to take, PAUSE. Ask for guidance and direction. If you don’t have a higher power, call a friend who is in recovery and can identify.

How did this tip resonate with you? Let us know your thoughts below. There are many people in the Loosid community who need to hear what you have to say.

With Love, Loosid :pray::heart:

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This is a great tip. I find myself in this situation at least 1 time a day. I go to my Higher Power first and if I still have this feeling I call my sponsor.

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Love this. I forget I have it sometimes. Most of the time :grimacing: so thank you for this reminder :heartpulse:

This is so true! As soon as my feelings have been hurt or something ticks me off, I want to drink or do something just as dumb. Instead lately I’ve been hoping on here or a zoom meeting. I can’t wait to have a car and go to in person meetings again.

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It has taken me a very long time to begin to pause when agitated. When I practice it and come to see my assumptions were skewed I’m more willing to do it more. It’s ego in initial perceived assault and humility that results. Not humiliation but just learning to accept I’m not always right in every way.

A very helpful tool for me especially in early sobriety….. when I remember to use it. TY🙏

It’s extremely helpful and preventative

This was exactly what I needed to hear today :slightly_smiling_face::two_hearts::pray:t2: