Loosid Sober Tip of the Day March 28

When entering our recovery journey, many of us want to get back everything we lost immediately.

A good number of us have lost our jobs or our homes. Others may still have our jobs or homes but have lost the trust of our family and friends. There are others amongst us who have lost our freedom.

Whatever the case, we come into recovery having lost quite a bit and we want everything back right away.

The journey of a million miles begins with the first step.

The problem is, we want to take the elevator.

The truth is what we want is the opposite of what we need.

We are not ready for the elevator. We need to take the steps.

The trick is to focus on enjoying the experience of every step. Every amend. Every repaired relationship. Every new job.

Eventually, we will understand why taking the steps is so important.

Taking the steps allows us the time to appreciate the life we are re-building. We will come to cherish it. We will be beyond grateful we never took the elevator, as each and every step we take strengthens our sobriety and increases our humility.

Then the magical time will happen when it’s our turn to show another struggling addict the importance of taking the steps.

Be kind to yourself today. Just by reading this, know that you have just taken another giant step.

How did this tip resonate with you? Let us know your thoughts below. There are many people in the Loosid community who need to hear what you have to say.

With Love, Loosid :pray::heart:

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Yes. So true.

I do appreciate this. I will, I will , I will. Thank you.

I’ve read this one before. Though this one resonates with me this morning on a different level! I Just read a passage that stated the same thing. It referenced a microwave instead. So true! Given time and trust in our high power, we WILL see what we are made out to see. Patience and time.

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Really kinda needed that

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Hearing that should remind us of how far many have came in sobriety and what that felt like in the begging before building back on our true selves after the gift of desperation

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Best tip in bit. Thanks

This one hits me really close this week. I lost my 2 beloved pets within 5 days and I don’t know how to grieve sober. I burst into tears every five minutes & I just want to fast forward or drink.

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This reminds me that after all of my BS I truly have a lot to be thankful for.

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I really needed this today.

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Those tears are your body showing how to grieve. Let them flow. Feel what it feels like. Don’t change a thing about those feelings. That’s grieving. I’m sorry for you loss, my condolences to you.
Remember a drink is a solution not your problem. Try a different solution to your problems.

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This is another GOD shot for me. I have a Sponsee that’s going through this same stuff right now. This person keeps relapsing. Not losing any stuff but feeling the despair is making them crazy right now.
It’s an eye opener for me as a sponsor, not everyone is going to lose all their stuff. Some of us may still have the house, cars and family but we are very miserable inside. We are constantly changing the way we feel. That’s a whole new look on rock bottom. Those feelings of suicide at the same time as having all the stuff we want in life. This reassure that the material world can’t fix us. It’s a true malady of the spirit world.

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Thank you. I’ll try. :heart:

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Welcome :pray:
One day at a time

Angela, I’m a pet lover too. I’m so sorry for ur loss. They are dear members of the family. Stay strong. You can do it. A drink won’t help. Try prayer or meditation, maybe a walk in nature to take ur mind off of it :blush:

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Great tip. Good teminder

You’re right, thank you. A walk will do me well.

I hit Rock bottom

Life often sucks, sober or not. It’s just easier to cope long term without the booze