Loosid Sober Tip of the Day May 1

Sober Tips
#1

Compare and despair.

Yesterday, we talked about how important it is to identify with the feelings and never to compare stories.

Comparing ourselves to others is a trap that too many people in recovery find themselves.

When we compare ourselves to others, we lose sight of the entire reason why we are in recovery… to connect with likeminded others who share our common bond.

Comparison is the death of happiness. We must look toward others with hope and, for those who may be sicker than others, we must choose empathy.

When we compare, we either feel worse about ourselves or we feel better than others. Self-pity or ego. Either path is the wrong path.

Make a commitment today to not compare yourself to others. You are exactly where you need to be.

How did this tip resonate with you? Let us know your thoughts below. There are many people in the Loosid community who need to hear what you have to say.

With Love, Loosid :pray::heart:

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#3

This hits so close to home for me. I previously used to compare my recovery to others. Either I made myself feel bad because I was not as far along as others or I judged someone else for the distance they traveled. I learned to only focus on my journey and even if we used the same techniques,were still gon have so many differences. When I did compare,it took my attention off me and my recovery and I was neglecting myself. Never again!!

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#4

This is exactly what I needed to hear today. I have reset so many times and I am always beating myself up after seeing so many other folks who seem to “get it” and can stay sober with seemingly no effort! How do I know what they are really going through? I will focus on my progress today and will celebrate because today, today I will not drink! :two_hearts:

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#5

It’s hard not to compare. I find it best if I share not compare. When I share my story, my emotions and my feelings this helps bring out similarities together. Make an effort today to share your experience strength and hope with someone today. Then listen to theirs. Point out the similarities. Most importantly share the solution as this has helped me find new ways to cope with sobriety situation that would baffle us.

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