Loosid Sober Tip of the Day November 10

The built-in forgetter.

When we look at our past, when tempted to take a drink or use substances, we think of the relief it will bring. Sadly, too many of us forget the negative things that have happened when we have used in the past.

We have a built-in forgetter.

Our built-in forgetter gives us no protection from the next drink or drug. If we are not working a spiritual program of recovery and have not built a sober network to reach out to, more often than not, we use again.

This is why it is so important to build a sober support system around you.

One great way to eliminate the built-in forgetter is to do the following:

Take a sheet of paper or write on your phone all the bad things that have happened when you have used alcohol or drugs.

If you are fearless and thorough your list may be quite long.

On the bottom of your list, write down the names and numbers of your support network.

Any time you think about picking up that drink or that drug, pull out that list and read it.

Then call your support network. It will most likely save your life.

How did this tip resonate with you? Let us know your thoughts below. There are many people in the Loosid community who need to hear what you have to say.

With Love, Loosid :pray::heart:

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Exactly what I needed to see today.

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Yeah, same. Just when you need it. Playing that tape through.

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What resonated most with me was the "support network". The reason being, when I started to get sober I told my circle of friends to call me anytime when they were in trouble or too smashed to drive. Not realizing that the same people would not be able to help me when I feel like relapsing. I had to learn to step away. That was very hard. Now, I have a few friends who understand my struggles and that I can count on. They showed me that respect, love, and support goes both ways. Don't be used!

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I love this advice! Iā€™m going to do this along with my steps! I love this group! :heart:

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