Loosid Sober Tip of the Day November 30

Resentment is the #1 offender. It kills more alcoholics and addicts than anything.

We talk about resentment frequently in the daily tips for this very reason. Why? Because repetition is the mother of skill.

In the same way we need to remind ourselves what works, it is equally as powerful to remind ourselves what does not work.

Most of use reading this have a resentment or two in our back pockets. Even if we have done the work to free ourselves of resentments, so many of us hold onto a few as we feel we are not ready to let them go.

Just for today, make a decision to let them go. You are drinking the poison waiting for the other person to suffer. Choose not to suffer today.

How did this tip resonate with you? Let us know your thoughts below. There are many people in the Loosid community who need to hear what you have to say.

With Love, Loosid :pray::heart:

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Free yourself

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Great one!

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I love this tip as I struggle through step 4. I had no idea how much resentment I harbor. Thank you so much for this tip. It’s right on the money! :pray:

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I love this it’s so true I’ve decided to start meeting with my sponsor again. I stopped for a while that’s not good

This hit the nail on the head

I like the analogy of drinking the poison yourself and waiting for the other person to suffer

Important one for sure!!

I’m new here… and I’m full of resentment… mainly for myself. I resent choices I make. I feel at times like I am someone else watching myself make these choices and not stopping me. It’s like I am enabling myself to make more and more bad choices. I’m here for help and I definitely don’t want others to suffer on my behalf.

Self awareness does wonders