Loosid Sober Tip of the Day September 23

The built-in forgetter.

When we look at our past, when tempted to take a drink or use substances, we think of the relief it will bring. Sadly, too many of us forget the negative things that have happened when we have used in the past.

We have a built-in forgetter.

Our built-in forgetter gives us no protection from the next drink or drug. If we are not working a spiritual program of recovery and have not built a sober network to reach out to, more often than not, we use again.

This is why it is so important to build a sober support system around you.

One great way to eliminate the built-in forgetter is to do the following:

Take a sheet of paper or write on your phone all the bad things that have happened when you have used alcohol or drugs.

If you are fearless and thorough your list may be quite long.

On the bottom of your list, write down the names and numbers of your support network.

Any time you think about picking up that drink or that drug, pull out that list and read it.

Then call your support network. It will most likely save your life.

How did this tip resonate with you? Let us know your thoughts below. There are many people in the Loosid community who need to hear what you have to say.

With Love, Loosid :pray::heart:

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Very powerful information. Thanks I will try this.

I think one of my biggest obstacles is is isolating and not reaching out. For as long as I can remember, I have dreaded talking on the phone. When it comes to answering calls or making them, even for simple tasks I get this very uncomfortable knot in the pit of my stomach that I have to push against in order to attempt to complete the call. I know it comes from trauma/abuse but knowing where it's from or understanding what it is doesn't make it any easier to contend with. I literally went my entire adult life up until rather recently without seeing a doctor. I don't talk to my kids' schools. They have to email me. And it's been like this long before addiction. I am grateful to have stumbled across this platform. I'm just really starting to get warmed up to it. It helps me keep my head up and stay positive. Thank you

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When I was in out patient someone said ‘play it forward’ meaning when you think about a drink play it forward in your mind and it will remind you pretty quick what the outcome will be. And then it’s ‘Aw hell no!’

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Thank you so much :blush:

A built in forgetter. What a way to put it.